I have been married for 10 years to, I would say, an absentee wife. Whenever she receives chama money or gets a loan, she leaves me and our two children and goes to rent a house elsewhere. She comes back after she has spent all the money, often when I am not in.
She will then apologise profusely and say that I better kill her if I cannot forgive her, given that she is not going anywhere.
This cycle has repeated itself for about five years. I have moved houses but she keeps tracing me and getting her way. I do not feel like killing anybody because I know the consequences, but I once thought about it.
All her relatives have shunned her due to her behaviour. This is a “come-we-stay” type of marriage. How do I get out of this mess?
Dan.
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